We enslave ourselves in two ways:

1.  We do not own ourselves as creators. 

2.  While being busy doing what we think is best we are blocking ourselves from the greater good

The issue lies in trust. The things beyond come via intuition.  It is a feeling.  You will never make it there by thinking.  Or by controlling and forcing. But we are not raised to trust ourselves. We are raised to consume, and conform.  This keeps things safe.  It gives the illusion of control.  The Information Age tethers us to always needing an answer.  But the greatest mysteries of life will always remain hidden.

The magic has no space for it to be cultivated and acknowledged in this environment.  It dies before it begins.

This is why sexually I am tired of those who are just chasing the male orgasm with the female as the afterthought.  The female should be front and center as everything happens through the feminine.  Instead the female is at the lowest level, very predatory.  She’s fighting to get some.  Which is fine at times but that’s all we have as nobody bothers to create more beyond the effort that it takes to judge and swipe a finger.  We’ve become lazy in our convenience, only connecting at what serves our baseline needs.  The good is left undone.

The key to change in this is women.  Women must raise the bar collectively and demand better.  Men will be forced to follow their lead.  If women continue operating at the masculine predatory level change won’t happen.  Women must unite their heart with their will and take back the reins.  This will build respect.  We need this fire in the belly.  It’s the next shift for women in the women’s movement.  Bringing back spirituality to sexuality will help Her to stop giving Her power to men in sex which enslaves women.  There is so much being lost right now.

When we warm up to the feminine in this capacity men too can embrace their feminine size more freely which will help to soften everything and it will be better for men too.  They have been cut off from their feminine side for far too long.  

This energy is a very healing energy and is needed.   The key to this energy is in living in the light, aware.  There is no need to prove anything in this, just be.  Let it be.  Then by letting go of the hunt you have created space for the good to be made complete.