I’ve been thinking a lot lately of the chemistry of people and their connections.  These things have a life of their own.  From the literal chemical exchange that takes place during sex (if we’re talking romantic or sexual encounters) to other bonds.  I refer to this personally as alchemy.  It’s literally as if when 2 people come together you are creating a 3rd person in this exchange.  This is why it’s so hard when a lot of people break up, it’s like a murder of the 3rd invisible entity.  Sometimes others can feel it (as in “wow I can’t imagine them not together”).  Of course this goes the other way too like in Ike Turner & Tina Turner’s matchup for example, very creative but toxic.  When you go through any type of breakup you need to properly mourn the loss of the “3rd person” for you have killed off life force whether good or bad.  If you don’t, it can haunt you for years to come.  This goes for family bonds, romance, business, etc.  

I feel like more than ever before we humans are living in a magical era of creation, the magicians of our own worlds.  This is why  intention and being mindful is more important than ever.  “Small people”, immature people, selfish people, people with ulterior motives rather than sincerity all have adverse effects on the alchemy at play.  Awareness is key, though be careful on being too perfectionistic.  Allowing yet with awareness is crucial.  The ones with the best positioning for great alchemy are the ones with the life experience and the maturity to process it correctly.   Father Time is one of the best allies in this lab.