The current chaos and upheaval happening is about a giant correction mechanism taking place on Earth as the rise of the feminine comes together.  This is very healing for everyone as feminine force is the life force of the planet, it is the force that gives birth to begin with, it is the force that heals and that creates.  It is inspiration in its purest form.

One of the biggest restrictions and hold backs under the patriarchy is women being for sale.  This is where you get the emphasis on looks, being skinny and thin, giggly, sweet and dumb, all the stuff that is highly coveted and valued under the patriarchy.  A woman’s agreeability, her pretty soft features, her ability to behave and do what you ask of her, her behaving the way you EXPECT her to behave, makes her compliant and therefore easy to buy and sell, she’s like a blank canvas you can paint all your ideas and desires on.  The truth is her need for approval and being compliant, especially approval from men, creates hold back and she’s never fully unleashed.  This keeps everything safe, where you can secure bloodlines and progeny and your own arm candy value.  Women suffer under this, men actually suffer under this because it’s not right, it’s not living in truth.  It’s highly disrespectful and unbalanced and we are SWIMMING IN IT on this planet.

Women can’t support each other under this system, a link we desperately need, because when the feminine is for sale it creates a “not enough” environment.  A pretty woman, one who tosses her hair and does all the body signals men crave is seen as a threat under this limiting system because she might take what another sees as theirs.  Mine and yours, creating a divide.  There is no unification with this.  It puts a heavy lid on the unlimited power of feminine force.

Let me tell you the darkest part.  It has nothing to do with external validation, it has nothing to do with women cat fighting or being victims of men or male approval at all.  The darkest part is that women sell themselves.  I have been here when I was younger.  We sell ourselves with our doubts.  We sell our sexuality and our femininity when we look for protectors who will cradle us.  WE are our own protectors!!!  There is no force more powerful than feminine force! Yet we give away our power.  It makes sense, the world doesn’t tend to embrace and welcome women with their own power and agency, their own opinions or ideas because it doesn’t fit the mold so people get uncomfortable.  I have suffered from this for years, being a mold breaker, being a woman not scared, who is self sourced with her own brain who does not seek validation from the external.   It is a lonely journey, even when I generally seek male companionship for love I find who I am is not enough, I’m not playing the game or I’m not thin enough or fitting some paradigm or certain behavior where I’m supposed to be acting a certain way, blah blah blah.  I have to dumb myself down and play small if I were to fit into this.  Which I refuse.  To honor yourself means to pull away from the tribe because you have to break from current tribal mentalities to bring in the New.   Planet Earth needs mold breakers now more than ever, especially ones who are women living in their power and we need men who support these kinds of women.  This is about things becoming better for everyone.